On The Topic Of Sadomasochism
I am Max.
I am what you will hear referred to as a "Master" within the lifestyle of BDSM (Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, Sadism & Masochism). This means that I know everything YOU know, plus a whole enormously big chunk of stuff that you do NOT know, about human sexuality. So yes I am an expert, but do not let that fool you. Experts built the Titanic. We can all make errors and be mistaken.
What I would like to ask from you children is, to what extent do you find the concept of sadomasochism to be interesting, intriguing, attractive or scary? Whatever is your honest, personal feelings on this, I am very interested in hearing them.
I take it for granted that all living, vital, human beings want to have an interesting and stimulating sexual life. There is certainly enough drudgery and boring shit in life all ready! Within sexual relationships and sexuality, we all have a shot at being close to someone, intimate, open, in communication, not alone, all these things. For many, if not most, people, this is the highlight of existence, to be able to indulge their desires and reach a point of sexual gratification and satisfaction. A moment where life makes sense, when it is smiling to you.
Do you seriously believe that this is something that will "just happen"? What is the ONLY thing that will "just happen" in this world? That is right. Shit happens. Shit will just happen, unless you pay attention and work toewards what it is that you want.
If you do nothing, if all you have time for, is to sit around and do nothing but masturbating your own misery and aggravation, how can you honestly expect that something good will ever happen to you?
This is true for all things in life, so also for sexuality. You can choose to fornicate like an animal, or you can choose to educate yourself, elaborate your skills and learn more about your own desires and just what it takes to make you happy.
Does this make sense to you?
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