Single Japanese women don't want husbands

[Agrippa]

Actually, one of my aunts never got married, nor did she have any -at least serious- affairs and she still lives with my grandmother and she's as happy as anything.

Same in my family, though I wouldnt say she's that happy nor really worried about...somewhat indifferent about such things.

[Zyklop]

Originally Posted by Phlegethon

In the case of Victoria Beckham they probably were tumors. Just think of the father.

Yeah, it also could have been like this:

[Renwein]

Originally Posted by Bograchev Mahil

I guess you're an expert in overcrowdedness since England (where you "live" (trying to breathe)) is one of the Worlds most dense populated nations(377/sq.km) and even densier than Japan (335/sq.km).

Well Damn....

I always assumed Japan was more crowded, because I remember hearing about how overcrowding was a problem there, house prices were so high / cost of living was expensive,etc. (Yeh, so noone can afford a house here either...)
The south east is supposedly TWICE as crowded as the Netherlands. that means over 700 per sk.km in the region I guess? ARGHH
(AND it's projected to grow another 4 million over the next 25 years with 85% of all growth coming from immigration)

Although if you took out the newcomers (incl. from other parts of britain) then it might be at a more liveable level. I would think Japan is mostly overcrowded with other Japanese "at least".

Originally Posted by trinacria

I think it's sort of archaic to think that if a woman chooses not to marry she'll end up a lonely old crow with cats pawing at her feet, but if a man stays a bachelor his whole life he's youthful, robust, manly..?

I think many studies have said men actually cope much worse with loneliness in the long run the women...

It's also funny to see the men berating the women here for not wanting children. Isn't it supposed to be the other way round again?

Anyway I would have thought it's probably much better for a growing-up child to have a 'stable' father. Emmm, unless he's like Michael Jackson or....Albert Fish or somesuch (though I guess that would be an unstable stable father)

[Nerthus]

Caesarian should only be done when the woman really can't give birth naturally. An ex classmate of mine also did it because she was afraid of the pain and now has a very ugly scar. She also refused to eat properly during pregnancy because she did not want to gain a lot of weight! Her baby was of course born weak and with some deficiencies.

[Rusalka]

Originally Posted by Aeternitas

Her baby was of course born weak and with some deficiencies.

That sounds like a sentence from a propaganda brochure.

By the way, I was born with Caesarian section as well, after my mom trying to give me birth for almost two days -unsuccessfully- and the professor deciding that it's gotten risky. She doesn't have a 'scar', not anything visible unless you know where exactly it is and look very closely and actually, it's not exactly in a place that one would see very regularly anyway. Only if one's wearing very low bikinis. The way the scar will end up depends on the doctor and how he or she's done it. Some doctors do a really sloppy job and there is a difference between regular stitches and "aesthetic" ones as they call them.

[Reltih]

Originally Posted by Startide

Although if you took out the newcomers (incl. from other parts of britain) then it might be at a more liveable level. I would think Japan is mostly overcrowded with other Japanese "at least".

As for the 2004th year the UK has about 2.8% emigrants.
Even if they all reside in England they would constitute about 3.3% of the population of England. Even without all these emigrants the density of population in England would be about 364/sq.km. Figure out.
364 english english per sq.km. That's more than that Japanese density.
May be you should think about starting a special program for fighting this problem (like in China).

[Graeme]

Someone asked about the Japanese attitude to immigrants. The Japanese are very xenophobic, they hate immigrants and foreigners. The long standing Korean and Chinese immigrant descendents are just being accepted after hundreds of years. The Japanese word for foreigner is gaijin. It is a nasty word equivalent to that used in Australia when referring to foreigners, which is wog.

It is unfortunate that being married and having children is seen by some as types of regressive behaviour and slavery. My parents married young, had 8 children, managed to survive and own property. They did not have tertiary qualifications. We all either accept the situation that Europe and other Western countries are going to lose their original populations by senescence and be replaced by immigrants from the muslim and non White world or marry younger, have more than 2 children and work harder/smarter. Japan will last a long time because it has a population over 100 million, its people work hard, its people hate immigrants and do not accept foreigners no matter how well they speak the language or are assimilated. Europe is not like Japan. Europe is liberal, wishywashy, self hating and self destructive. Look how the muslims and non Europeans have gotten their way in The Netherlands, Britain, Sweden...

By the way, population density in Malta is in the thousands/sq.km. I don't have any maiden aunts or unmarried uncles. They are all married with children just happier than the Bundys. I don't want to sound holier than thou as I haven't been that good in the marriage or children area. I have four children, one per relationship, so I cannot practice what I have preached but as someone said, not everyone is suited to the marriage/children/family thing.

[Phlegethon]

To some it is not even a theoretical option.

[Awar]

Originally Posted by Graeme

Europe is not like Japan. Europe is liberal, wishywashy, self hating and self destructive. Look how the muslims and non Europeans have gotten their way in The Netherlands, Britain, Sweden...

Not all of Europe is like that. There are also some parts which are self-destructively chauvinist/nationalist.

I don't want to sound holier than thou as I haven't been that good in the marriage or children area. I have four children, one per relationship, so I cannot practice what I have preached but as someone said, not everyone is suited to the marriage/children/family thing.

I think most people aren't good in the marriage/children area, simply because
the traditions of marriage in our world don't really coincide with the way humans are hard-coded

Wishful thinking vs. biology... you guess what wins in the long run.

[Gil]

Originally Posted by Graeme

I have four children, one per relationship, so I cannot practice what I have preached but as someone said, not everyone is suited to the marriage/children/family thing.

Nothing extraordinary there mate, not all male mamalls are monogamous or have long relationships....not are "loyal" to the partner...

[Alkman]

Originally Posted by Manji

Just the other day I was chatting with a japanese woman, and when I told her I was from Europe she sends me this:

Damn, now I need 10 minutes alone please and a secluded place.

Bah,fake boobs!
This one looks far better to me

[Phlegethon]

Originally Posted by Alkman

This one looks far better to me

How about more sumo-esque?

[Alkman]

Originally Posted by Phlegethon

How about more sumo-esque?

Yes,she seems good for wrestling

[Agrippa]

Bah,fake boobs!

Nope, they dont look faked.

Originally Posted by Zyklop

Most of those women will have a very sad and lonely time when they are 40+, without children and their beauty fading away with each year.

So does Men, who want an old blok? ej?


Jacque

Originally Posted by Alkman

Bah,fake boobs!
This one looks far better to me

Post some pictures of hot looking guys too, you wanna be fair to the girls here. hehehe.


cheers
Jacque

[Menydh]

Originally Posted by jacque

So does Men, who want an old blok? ej?

nicholas.csb: Younger Women Attracted to Older Men

Originally Posted by jacque

Post some pictures of hot looking guys too, you wanna be fair to the girls here. hehehe.

Wouldn't Stirpes be a strange place if men here posted pictures of hot looking men?