Will the future generations of women make good mothers?

[Carnyx]

A Woman’s Guide to a One-Night Stand

July 12, 2006


-Stephanie Sims
Women get an unfair stereotype. We’re supposed to be sweet, attractive and dream about commitment and big, white wedding ceremonies while guys get to have all the fun sleeping around in their bachelor pads, spreading pick-up lines around the bar scene until they score. Commitments are the last thing on men’s minds.
But times have changed, and not every woman fits that old-fashioned stereotype. So why can’t women do the same things the boys can? Is it the threat of being called a whore? Please, ladies. If men can do it, women sure as hell can do it, too.
Chasing tail is much easier when you’re a woman, anyway; guys are normally the aggressor, and it’s hot when women take the pressure off and do the work themselves. Women just need to tweak the rules of the game a bit. Here’s a guide on how a woman should handle a one-night stand:



• DO clean up your place a little bit before you head out on the town, just in case. If you score tonight, you could be doing it on the kitchen table, the counter, the bathroom floor, the bathtub....you get the point.

• DO go to the bar with friends who are less attractive than you. This will affirm that when you make a move, he’ll want to keep talking to you to get in your pants, not to devise a plan to get in your friend’s pants. Unless he’s got major beer goggles, which leads us to the next point…
• DON’T go for dudes that are absolutely hammered. He might be a hottie, but when he’s obnoxiously yelling out Anchorman quotes with his buddies at the bar and having a bit of a problem standing on his own, you might want to steer clear. Sure, it would be easy to get him to go home with you, but that’s where it could unravel due to his alcohol intake. Unless you’d rather baby-sit a dude too drunk to get you off, let alone see straight, don’t target a guy who is completely wasted.
• DON’T get too drunk yourself. Getting drunk often means stupid things are said and done, and not every guy wants to go home with the girl with cranberry-vodka spilled on her and singing along with “Since U Been Gone.” Plus, beer goggles can have very hazardous results once they come off the morning after. By all means, drink a little liquid courage, just don’t go overboard.
• DO remember to smile and be confident when you approach your sexual target. Guys like it when they don’t have to do any work to pick up a girl. There are really no rules when it comes to starting a conversation with the guy either. Compliments always work (“has anyone told you you’ve got rock star hair?”). Approaching bigger groups of guys can be intimidating, but here’s an “in” that usually works: listen in on the group’s conversation while you’re at the bar ordering a drink. Interject with an opposing opinion and start a flirty debate. Note: this won’t work when talking politics or religion.

• DON’T look for common ground in your conversation. That’s optional. Find out some key information pertaining to tonight and the next morning. Does he have to work the next morning? Does he have enough money to take the subway or a cab home? Don’t ask if he has a girlfriend. If he’s interested in going home with you, he’ll probably lie if he has one anyway.
• As the night goes on, especially as last call nears, DO give lots of physical compliments. It’s a known fact that guys do not pick up on hints. But when you tell a guy, “You’ve got a great ass,” and give him a wink, or say “Muscles are such a turn-on” while squeezing his bicep and batting your eyelashes, those hints are not so subtle. When it finally is last call or he says his boys are about to bounce, make the move. Tell him you’re going back to your place and he’s welcome to join you. If he’s hooked on you, he’ll be bailing on his friends and hailing you both a cab in no time.

Once you’ve secured the guy, you both have to come to a consensus about where you can get to know each other horizontally. Our suggestion is to make it your place—it’s territory you know, and since you’re in charge on your turf, you’re more likely to get what you want. Once inside, you can start phase two however you want. Depending on the situation and how well you two, uh, click, you can either pour more alcohol to lighten the awkward factor or get right down to business against the wall in the entryway, on the kitchen counter, on the bathroom floor (aren’t you glad you cleaned up?), you get the picture. But before penetration happens....

• DO use condoms. Whatever the excuse is—he doesn’t like how they feel, it’s a hassle to put one on—there should be no excuses when it comes to protecting yourself. Not to be a Debbie Downer, but you shouldn’t be reminded of your hot night of steamy sex when you pee and it burns. Some STDs are deadly, and some have no symptoms at all. Have sex with condoms. It’s a win-win situation.
• DO focus on getting yourself off first and foremost. That’s why you brought him home, right? So he could please you? Remember, you’re on your turf so you’re in charge. Show him how to make you happy, and if he’s being selfish, force yourself on top so he has no choice. If you actually had common ground with the guy and you think regular sex with him might work, please him, too. But the only person that really matters in the morning is you.
• DON’T be afraid to let loose. Use your belts and scarves to tie him to your headboard and blindfold him. Put that whipped cream to good use. Do it in front of mirrors. If the idea of getting freaky scares you, remember that you’ll never see him again, but he’ll always remember you.

• DON’T let him stay over; kick him out before he falls asleep. You don’t want him hanging around the next morning. He’ll eat your food, drink your coffee, hang out on your computer and watch your TV. Tell him you have to work, catch an early flight, or go feed your friend’s dog because you went out and picked him up instead. However, if you want to pursue regular sex with him, kick him out first thing in the morning. But if not, do you want to share your bed with a guy hogging the sheets who you’re not going to see again?
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Finally, don’t worry about others who call you a whore for having a night no-strings-attached sex by your rules. Those people obviously need to get laid.

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A clear attemp to corrupt women who are said to be monogamous by means of stinky feminist propaganda. But after reading this I'm quite pessimistic as for the future of the generations to come.
Once they have had sex with more men than they would be able to remember, what will be left of their maternal instinct? How could they even have children with one only man?

(You'll have "appreciated" the illustrative pic. )

[Theobald]

Originally Posted by Carnyx

Once they have had sex with more men than they would be able to remember, what will be left of their maternal instinct?

Nothing. Feminism has taught women to be whores.
But you see this kind of women when they are older; 30, 35, 40. No man wants to have a serious relationship (I mean, leading to marriage) with them, and they usually end up single, childless and depressive. Some of them even turn lesbians.

[Susi]

I'm going to cry.

What is this awful crap?!

Just because we are breaking stereotypes doesn't mean we have to be whores, and just because we criticise this doesn't mean we have to be virgins forever! Right man, right time. Come on, women!

*sighs*

This is so depressing...

Because I know a lot of girls who are like this. Just flip through the magazine "Cosmopolitain". That is the 'modern woman'... *sigh* (Though I do like some of the fashion and hair sections. But I can't help that. )

[Dux]

Well, isn't the modern world a jungle again? In the new survival of the fittest world, nothing looks more logical than sexual promiscuity upon the bestial regression of human behaviour. It comes with the territory.

In this subject as in all others, I'm very «equalist» and I advocate that education against promiscuity should be aimed not only at women but at the men too, equally if not even more. I always disapproved men socially accepted promiscuity. If men comprise 50% of world's population, and use-and-disposal of women is accepted... what women subjects would be these socially-accepted preys?

What I mean is that for each slut there's a bastard and vice-versa. There's no lesser evil.

Focusing on the main question, I see no abundant good mothers in a near future, let alone the long term. No good fathers either.

[Marcus Marulus]

I've met quite a lot of women who grew disgusted of this feminist crap that has been imposed to them. Shaking off that burden may be to their own benefit.

And the by-product of this whole indoctrination are the selfish and childish males as well.

[Susi]

Well I don't even see why feminism has to exist anymore anyways. We aren't really "oppressed".. we never were really so "oppressed" that a movement sprang up in the 13th century or whatever. We have equal rights and everything, so why can't we stop?

I think it is in them to create conflict where there is none.