Only a little bit crazy...
Hurra for my birthrights and other random (rambly) stuff
Posted Friday, May 30th, 2008 at 02:19 by Susi
._. It turns out all of this time I've been being pushed around by the British consul that I don't need to apply for citizenship and I don't need to pay them any money for that privelege because I already (sort of) have it. Apparently they won't directly give it to me, I have to apply for a passport and "prove" that my parents are British (not very hard, I just need about 50kg of documents according to the papers). So hurra. In a month and a bit I can move (more) freely about the EU. And not get nearly deported from Germany. ><
Anyways, I'm going to go a bit rambly and say some thoughts about these days, politics, nationalism, what have you....
I've noticed sometimes a tendency in some nationalist men to be misogynistic. I'm unsure of why. I understand the "modern woman" isn't the best ideal but to think of women poorly isn't going to improve things. To me, I'd say many women and many men too for that matter aren't very bright. They obviously have some level of intelligence but they don't consider the consequences of their actions fully -- and thus don't understand when things turn out poorly.
This is why, I think, that we see some European women running off with Turks or Africans or whatever -- and don't think this is solely the realm of women. I've seen so many men off with Asian women it hurts. I think I can understand why. Through their own culture and tradition, Asian women usually are more submissive towards men, and I think this is ultimately what many men want.
(Un)fortunately, I think European women are more strong willed. Which makes them less attractive, I guess, in the long run. But women aren't always like this, when we talk amongst ourselves of course we always have our own insecurities but we always tell each other to put on a brave face and to stick things out strongly.
Why we do this is because if we didn't men would walk all over us. It's fine to be nice, but honestly, in this world, things can't be like they were in the (romanticised) past.
So to any misogynistic people out there, please understand that we can't just make everything go back to how it was.
We have to live in the present and think towards the future. The past sets the precedent but the present and the future is truly what is happening. The future can be repaired and made better but we can't go back to the days before industrialisation. Certainly, in the "West" manufacturing appears to have declined. It hasn't; it just hasn't increased as rapidly or ubiquitously as the service sector. The traditional centres of manufacturing have declined due to an expansion (and encroachment) of industrial use into the countryside and suburbs rather than continuing to exist in the core of the city.
This causes the perception that manufacturing is in a decline -- this is nearly impossible, because the world population has increased rapidly with industrialisation. Also due to the filtering up of housing and changing of uses within the core, the core of the city becomes more gentrified and thusly what the suburbs once were -- an exclusive enclave of the rich.
Anyways I don't feel like writing anymore. Sorry. ^^
<3 susu
Anyways, I'm going to go a bit rambly and say some thoughts about these days, politics, nationalism, what have you....
I've noticed sometimes a tendency in some nationalist men to be misogynistic. I'm unsure of why. I understand the "modern woman" isn't the best ideal but to think of women poorly isn't going to improve things. To me, I'd say many women and many men too for that matter aren't very bright. They obviously have some level of intelligence but they don't consider the consequences of their actions fully -- and thus don't understand when things turn out poorly.
This is why, I think, that we see some European women running off with Turks or Africans or whatever -- and don't think this is solely the realm of women. I've seen so many men off with Asian women it hurts. I think I can understand why. Through their own culture and tradition, Asian women usually are more submissive towards men, and I think this is ultimately what many men want.
(Un)fortunately, I think European women are more strong willed. Which makes them less attractive, I guess, in the long run. But women aren't always like this, when we talk amongst ourselves of course we always have our own insecurities but we always tell each other to put on a brave face and to stick things out strongly.
Why we do this is because if we didn't men would walk all over us. It's fine to be nice, but honestly, in this world, things can't be like they were in the (romanticised) past.
So to any misogynistic people out there, please understand that we can't just make everything go back to how it was.
We have to live in the present and think towards the future. The past sets the precedent but the present and the future is truly what is happening. The future can be repaired and made better but we can't go back to the days before industrialisation. Certainly, in the "West" manufacturing appears to have declined. It hasn't; it just hasn't increased as rapidly or ubiquitously as the service sector. The traditional centres of manufacturing have declined due to an expansion (and encroachment) of industrial use into the countryside and suburbs rather than continuing to exist in the core of the city.
This causes the perception that manufacturing is in a decline -- this is nearly impossible, because the world population has increased rapidly with industrialisation. Also due to the filtering up of housing and changing of uses within the core, the core of the city becomes more gentrified and thusly what the suburbs once were -- an exclusive enclave of the rich.
Anyways I don't feel like writing anymore. Sorry. ^^
<3 susu
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I just wondered why your mood is depressed, after reading this blog I understand.
What troubles you must have experienced to write such things about men. I made the different experience: I'm always nice to girls (not just to girls, I'm a nice bloke in general) and in my opinion they are equated to men (so I'm not misogynistic) but I believe, that's the root of my problems. I guess, women think nice guys to be either gay or weedies. To see true Europeans with aliens is always a shame, I agree, but if a man needs a weak, subordinated woman he doesn't deserve you! On the other hand I blame these far too strong willed career women for our lag of children. Too many european women are interested in their company instead of having a family. In your so called "romanticised past" it was easier for men, to feed the whole family with his job. Nowadays that's almost impossible, if you want more than 2 children and even 2 are going to be tricky (well, politics again). So you're right: the world population has increased rapidly but true Europeans are decreasing. So, for Europe's sake, use your strong will to be a strong mother as well (not just you but every European woman). And do you really fear being overran by men just because you're nice & kind? I hope you don't because I'm afraid of unkind women. |
Posted Friday, May 30th, 2008 at 10:53 by eurofighter
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I understand what you mean but I may be strong-willed, but I do want children, and I don't really care a lot about a career (though I am aiming for position of "world leader"). I'm sure if I was a world leader my people would appreciate me doing my duty and having children ^^ Like when then queen has children.
The past is romanticised because we always think it was better. That time that you talk about was a blink of the eye of human history. Most of the time it has been a struggle except for the very wealthy. Most poorer families tend to have more children, more so than richer families. I don't think it's a matter of affording children, it's really a matter more of people debating too much on when to have them. I have been treated like shit by men because I was nice and kind, so I'm only going to be nice and kind after some time. I'm sure it makes me sound harsh but relatively I'm much more nice than a lot of girls. And this gets me stomped on. ^^ |
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Posted Friday, May 30th, 2008 at 14:38 by Susi
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Life is going to become a struggle again, except for the very wealthy, if Europe keeps it's course to doom. I thought you were talking about the usually romanticised period (e.g. the middle ages etc.) 'cause I never met someone who romanticised the time when humans lived in caves and fought mammoths :) (a little exaggerated, but I think, you know what I mean)
A very good point you mentioned about the poorer families. Of course, poorer families don't have to debate of when having children, they just come. But then it's about debating of how to afford them. That's a very big point on the actual youth crime and gang membership. The parents don't know how to cope with the children, so they're living on the streets and become anti-social. And you're right as well that the rich (potential) parents spend their time with debating of when having children till they're too old. And then there are those who could afford children but prefer living on their wealth and don't want the responsibility that children bring (those are the sadest, I think). Makes me mad to hear, what some wankers did to you. I really hope this doesn't put you off kindness. Don't waste it on the ones who doesn't deserve it (I guess, that's what you mean with "I'm only going to be nice and kind after some time") Anyway, good to hear you're still kind!! And just to return to the European-alien-mixed relationships. I sometimes think, that (some of) our girls want to be treated like shit by their "men" and that's why they choose Turks and comparable scum. And this makes me really mad. |
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Posted Saturday, May 31st, 2008 at 13:57 by eurofighter
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"(Un)fortunately, I think European women are more strong willed. Which makes them less attractive, I guess, in the long run. But women aren't always like this, when we talk amongst ourselves of course we always have our own insecurities but we always tell each other to put on a brave face and to stick things out strongly.
Why we do this is because if we didn't men would walk all over us. It's fine to be nice, but honestly, in this world, things can't be like they were in the (romanticised) past. " feminism has made women competitors to men. This is precisely what has destroyed an important part of our civilization. it has put women against men, young against elders, classes against classes. It is called class struggle and still it goes on, even if communism is formally dead. Women in the past knew they could have men working for them just by asking for a symbolic protection. That was a natural task, the association nature requires. Deft women could even manipulate men just with their attractive power, they could have men quarrel between them to gain their favors, they could even have men fight and die for them. Now you have no more champions but competitors, and between competitors there is no association by definition. Equality between what is different is an absurd, and the destructive power of leftism requires just in this fact, the pretense of equalizing what is different, which actually conduces only to total annihilation of one part or to the partial destruction of the essence of both. |
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Posted 4 Weeks Ago at 17:28 by Kernunnos
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How are we against each other?
^^ I think there is always struggle between classes also... I think I would be bored not working or not doing anything productive. If I'm going to be manipulative, I don't see a reason for it. What is the point? Why do I want men to quarrel and die? I feel more useful doing something for society. |
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Posted 4 Weeks Ago at 01:14 by Susi
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"...they could have men quarrel between them to gain their favors, they could even have men fight and die for them..."
Isn't quarrelling and fighting for a woman's favor a kind of competition either? "Why do I want men to quarrel and die?" Probably to find out, which one's the best for you, the one who deserves you. Competition again :) |
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Posted 4 Weeks Ago at 10:24 by eurofighter
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