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Default Re: 'I love my mixed race baby - but why does she feel so alien?'

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Originally Posted by Strengthandhonour View Post
. It's almost like they know they have done something wrong but they don't want to face it or think about it. Like they have let someone down but don't want to take the blame for it.


That's the point..........what i really HATE is the deep hipocrisy of multiracialist peoples. They want to feel themselves more evoluted than others, they want the right of doing all what they want (as dating non-europeans), they criticise the "non-responsable people" but at the end the only non-responsable people are them.

They don't accept the consequences of their actions.............but, i wonder, WHY the people don't reflect BEFORE to act ?? It's rather simple......and VITAL when the subject is so important as the birth of your child........your blood.

The women in question wasn't an ignorant teen-ager, and neither a young girl...............HOW can do such reflections at this point ? PURE hypocrisy . I mean, i appreciate the courage of this woman (and its utility : so all the people who read the article know the deep truth) besides i can vaguely perceive her intimate state...... but to be really honest, i don't have any comprehension for her condition. It's not the result of unawarness (as pregnant teenagers, for ex.) or ignorance, but it's simply the result of a COMPLETE indifference toward herself.......her identity, her ethnic background , her ancestors, etc. etc. etc. etc. etc. etc..............she couldn't care less about her own heritage, and NOW she cries desperately if her "adorate" daughter look, doesn't reseamble to herself.........i repeat : pure hypocrisy



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I had read a while back that mothers are more likely to love the child if it resembles the family, or something like that.

"Strengthandhonour"............thank you for reporting this line (i heard the same, to be sincere).

For me (personal opinion), this kind of behaviour (if it's true), is the highest expression of idiocy and falsity of the common people........if you want your children looking like the rest of the family, WHY you choice a partner of another race ?? Aren't you aware that your child will not reseamble at all your family (especially if you're european, since Caucasian genes are more recessive in front of more esotic genes)

Isn't a bit too late, to recriminate and to do sad reflections, after the birth of the "black" son ? If you want to do such kind of reflections, do them before to be pregnant............it's unusefull, now, to be desperate if your daughter hasn't your BLUE eyes or your GOLDEN hair, or if she is short-statured or other.........if you liked those traits, If you care really about your own "BIO-TYPE" then you hadn't to marry an indian man. End of story. NO complaints, please.

If a Finnish girl dates a NIGERIAN guy, she can't hope to see a blond ivory skinned baby at the hospital, the day of the birth of their son...........It would be absurd and fool to have such expectation ; she will see simply a negrid baby (almost equal to her nigerian partner), completely alien to her social stratum with nothing in common with her "BIO-TYPE", or the bio-story of Finnic peninsula.



However, the article in the complex is a good confirmation of MANY things...........Excellent work, APTGANGR.
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